Omg I say this all the time.
Stop putting guilt into the lives of those of us that struggle to stay alive.
Your selfish words only add to the pressures of our existence.
Have you ever wondered why someone who sits on the brink doesn't allow themselves to leave.. For many, including myself, its because doing so would hurt/harm those we love.
Tell me again how selfish I am!
We cant go through life and face some of the most evil circumstances and not expect to be a little fucked up! Those interactions cause our brains to build shields... sometimes who we truly are will never be seen due to the trauma in our past.
Survival means getting up everyday and pushing past the memories and knowledge of how truly fucked up some humans can be.
We abuse our children but we don't teach them how to cope with the consequences of our/those actions. Those little brains develop their own coping skills and then grow into adults who are expected to be perfect!
Goodness me.. we need to remember everyone has their own stuff.. and be respectful and proud of all of us for surviving daily is a fucking brilliant yet sometimes tragic thing!
Support over selfish.